i like Stephen's outlook on his career and life...it is a hard balance to maintain between family and work...i also enjoyed the points made in regards to be a giver not a taker it does go a long way...trying to understand human nature is probably one of the hardest things you can do but if you know how it will make your worke environment easier....involving staff on different opinions is a fantastic way to make staff feel more appriciated, we all like to feel that way....and lastly, listing to different opinions no matter what position you are in is a great opportunity to learn.....